Learning The Hard Way

Fidelity. This word spells easily but quite difficult to hold on to--- for some.

The issue between Vhong and Deniece Cornejo/Cedric Lee has been dominating on my FB wall lately. I felt sorry for Vhong because he has to go through all these things before he will realize that being faithful to his partner, who gave him another chance by the way,really really matters. What if the said incident didn't took place? Will Vhong continue that secret affair (as I presumed based on his statement) with this beautiful young lady? Who could resist Deniece's beauty? Only the real men who are faithful to their partners. Oops don't get me wrong about this, I just want to emphasize that had Vhong been really really faithful and honest to his girlfriend, he won't be troubled by his case right now;had he wouldn't give in to Deniece's "invitation", he would be living peacefully right now, he wouldn't been a victim of "extortion" and he should have been maintaining that friendly face, unblemished.

Am not defending anyone's side for I know that the truth will come out in the right time. But such incident would be a lesson for both parties. The difficult is that, they learned it the hard way.

This is a reminder to all of us specially those who are in a relationship to remain faithful and honest as much as possible. If you are not happy with your present, have a heart to confess it and end the relationship first before taking another else.